One will make a lot of mistakes in his or her life.

一個(gè)人在一生中會(huì)犯很多錯(cuò)誤。

This rule works for everybody.

這個(gè)道理對(duì)每個(gè)人都適用。

No one can avoid it.

沒有人可以避免。

But there are 3 mistakes you should do your best to avoid.

不過，有3中錯(cuò)誤，你真的該盡可能去避免。

The first mistake is to constantly complain about things.

第一種錯(cuò)誤是“一直在抱怨”。

Almost everybody keeps doing it because it seems like that complaining makes us feel good.

幾乎所有人都這么做，因?yàn)楸г顾坪鯐?huì)讓我們感覺很好。

But that’s only an illusion .

但這其實(shí)是一種假象。

People who get satisfied with only complaining stop doing anything that actually makes a difference. In the end, these people achieve nothing.

那些僅僅抱怨一下就滿足了的人，是不會(huì)去做真正有用的事情的。最終，他們將一事無成。

The second mistake is to constantly try to outweigh everybody around you.

第二種錯(cuò)誤是“想把身邊的所有人都比下去”。

We can not survive this world alone.

我們沒有辦法只身一人在這個(gè)世界上幸存。

We have to cooperate with others because everybody’s own skills and time are limited.

我們必須和別人合作，因?yàn)橐粋€(gè)人自身的技能和時(shí)間都是有限的。

If you take every pitiful chance to prove yourself better than others, you’ll only make yourself miserable in the end.

如果你非要抓住每個(gè)可悲的小機(jī)會(huì)去證明自己比身邊的人行，你最終只會(huì)把自己弄得慘不忍睹。

The third mistake is to be kind without any condition.

第三種錯(cuò)誤是“無條件地善良”。

There is too much kindness in this world.

這個(gè)世界上的善良已經(jīng)夠多了。

Some of them are worthless.

其中有一些是沒有價(jià)值的。

What this world doesn’t have enough is rationality.

這個(gè)世界缺的，是理智。

Kindness without reasoning is the same as evil.

無條件的善良與邪惡無異。

Have you make any mistake of these 3?

所以你有犯過這3個(gè)錯(cuò)誤中的任何一個(gè)嗎?

If you have, now it’s the time to stop.

如果有，是時(shí)候停止了。