Dear son...

孩子…..

The day that you see me old and I am already not, have patience and try to understand me …

哪天你看到我日漸老去,身體也漸漸不行,請耐著性子試著了解我……

If I get dirty when eating… if I can not dress… have patience.

Remember the hours I spent teaching it to you.

如果我吃的臟兮兮,如果我不會穿衣服……

有耐性一點……

你記得我曾花多久時間教你這些事嗎?

If, when I speak to you, I repeat the same things thousand and one

times… do not interrupt me… listen to me

如果,當我一再重復述說

同樣的事情…不要打斷我,聽我說….

When you were small, I had to read to you thousand and one times the same story until you get to sleep…

When I do not want to have a shower, neither shame me nor scold me…

你小時候,我必須一遍又一遍的讀著同樣的故事,直到你靜靜睡著……..

當我不想洗澡,不要羞辱我也不要責罵我……

Remember when I had to chase you with thousand excuses I invented, in order that you wanted to bath…

When yousee my ignorance on new technologies… give me the necessary time and not look at me with your

mocking smile…

你記得小時后我曾編出多少理由,只為了哄你洗澡…..

當你看到我對新科技的無知,給我一點時間,不要掛著嘲弄的微笑看著我

I taught you how to do so many things… to eat good, to dress well… to confront life…

我曾教了你多少事情啊….如何好好的吃,好好的穿…

如何面對你的生命……

When at some moment I lose the memory or the thread of our

conversation… let me have the necessary time to remember… and if I cannot do it,

do not become nervous… as the most important thing is not my

conversation but surely to be with you and to have you listening to me…

如果交談中我忽然失憶不知所云,給我一點時間回想…

如果我還是無能為力,

請不要緊張…..

對我而言重要的不是對話,而是能跟你在一起,和你的傾聽…..

If ever I do not want to eat, do not force me. I know well when I need

to and when not.

當我不想吃東西時,不要勉強我.