Who doesn’t love love? It’s one of the best, purest emotions out there. This means, of course, that it has the most drama connected to it. Everyone worries about collecting a lot of relationship baggage while they’re young, but the truth is it’s going to happen regardless of how you try to avoid it.

有誰(shuí)不喜歡愛(ài)情呢?這是一種最美好最純潔的感情。當(dāng)然，這也意味著它是最具有戲劇化的。每個(gè)人年輕的時(shí)候都擔(dān)心自己會(huì)有很多感情上的麻煩，而事實(shí)是不管你多想努力避免，這種情況總會(huì)發(fā)生。

Instead of trying to prevent lots of missteps, read these tips and find out what you should know about love when you’re still young. Find comfort in knowing that everyone goes through these things, and we all make it out on the other side.

與其試著避免犯錯(cuò)，不如看看這些關(guān)于愛(ài)情年輕的你應(yīng)該知道的事。每個(gè)人都會(huì)有這樣的經(jīng)歷，而我們最終會(huì)好起來(lái)，這樣想就舒服多了。

1. You’ll make mistakes

你會(huì)犯錯(cuò)

It’s ok to make mistakes when you’re young – especially in love! Love isn’t a rational feeling, it’s something that makes you feel the highest of happiness during the good times, and the lowest of sadness during the bad times.

年輕的時(shí)候犯錯(cuò)是可以接受的，尤其是在愛(ài)情里。愛(ài)情不是理智的，好的時(shí)候它會(huì)讓你體會(huì)最大的快樂(lè)，糟糕的時(shí)候則會(huì)讓你感受最大的傷痛。

You’re going to date people you shouldn’t; you’re going to have arguments that aren’t worth having; and you’re going to say the wrong things during these fights. It’s ok because you’re going to learn from each of these mistakes, and that will make your true love that much sweeter.

你會(huì)愛(ài)上不該愛(ài)的人，你會(huì)為了不值得的事情爭(zhēng)吵，在爭(zhēng)吵時(shí)你會(huì)出口傷人。這都是可以接受的，因?yàn)槟銜?huì)從這些錯(cuò)誤里學(xué)習(xí)，讓你真正的愛(ài)情更加甜蜜。

2. You can be selfish

你可以自私

It’s normal to be selfish when you’re young, because you need to figure out who you are and what you want from life. It’s acceptable to break up with someone over something that might seem a bit petty just because they don’t seem right for you – because they probably aren’t!

年輕的時(shí)候自私是正常的，因?yàn)槟阈枰l(fā)現(xiàn)你是誰(shuí)，你想要從生活中得到什么。和某些人因?yàn)槟承┈嵤路质种皇且驗(yàn)樗麄兯坪醪贿m合你，這也是可以接受的，因?yàn)樗麄円苍S真的不適合你。

When you’re in your teens and twenties, you need to focus on yourself, because you need to discover who you are and what your career will be. You need to work on things like this, including loving yourself, before you try to make a partnership work for the long haul.

年輕的時(shí)候，你需要專注于自身，因?yàn)槟阈枰綄つ闶钦l(shuí)，你的職業(yè)生涯會(huì)怎樣發(fā)展。你需要為這些事情而忙碌，包括在發(fā)展一段長(zhǎng)期的關(guān)系之前先愛(ài)自己。

3. You can be single

你可以單身

And you should be! Too many young people think they always need to be in a relationship. If you have this mindset, then you’re more likely to date people who are bad for you just so you’ll be with someone. It’s ok to be single! No one is watching you and keeping track of how long you’re single versus how long you’re in a relationship.

而且你應(yīng)該單身!很多年輕人認(rèn)為他們需要戀愛(ài)，如果你有這種心態(tài)，你很有可能為了找個(gè)伴而和不合適的人約會(huì)。單身沒(méi)什么不可以!沒(méi)有人會(huì)盯著你，記錄你單身的時(shí)間和戀愛(ài)的時(shí)間哪個(gè)更長(zhǎng)。

It’s important to be single so you can focus on your own life; when you do find that special someone, your relationship will be that much better because it will be special. You’ll be a well-rounded person, and you won’t have a history of hopping from relationship to relationship with no substance.

單身也是重要的，這樣你就可以專注于自己的生活。當(dāng)你真的找到那個(gè)特別的人時(shí)，你們的關(guān)系會(huì)更好，因?yàn)樗鼤?huì)很特別。你會(huì)非常圓滿，而且你不會(huì)留下一段毫無(wú)意義不斷更換戀愛(ài)對(duì)象的歷史。