After talking to others I have come to realize that these are allvery common fears when it comes to giving up something thathas played a major role in your life. Whether it is a career, arelationship, or an addictive habit, quitting or giving up onsomething can be one of the most difficult decisions we arefaced with.

在和一些人交流之后我發(fā)現(xiàn)在決定放棄生活中某些重要東西的時(shí)候我們都有一些相同的恐懼。不管是職場(chǎng)上的還是一段感情或者一個(gè)很久的習(xí)慣，放棄某些都是我們所面對(duì)的一些最困難的決定。

What if I fail at this? What if it’s not the right decision? What if I regret it later?

要是我失敗了怎么辦?如果這不是一個(gè)正確的決定要怎么辦?要是我以后后悔了怎么辦?

Here are 10 things to consider when it may be time to quit somethingin your life.

當(dāng)你決定放棄某些東西的時(shí)候，以下10件事是你應(yīng)該考慮的：

1.How is this current situation serving you and your long-term goal?

對(duì)你個(gè)人，就你的長(zhǎng)遠(yuǎn)目標(biāo)來說當(dāng)下情形如何?

2. How does it align with your personal vision?

和你個(gè)人的想法如何結(jié)合?

3. Is this situation affecting your health negatively?

這樣的情況是否對(duì)你的健康又不好的影響?

4. Consider your ultimate happiness. Is this situation included in that scenario?

和你的相結(jié)合幸福，這樣的情況會(huì)發(fā)生嗎?

5. Does this situation still make you happy right now? If not, can it?

這樣的情況還是會(huì)讓你覺得開心嗎?如果不，那要如何?

6. If you are thinking of quitting, why haven’t you yet?

如果你想要放棄，那為什么你還沒放棄呢?

7. Is there fear surrounding the decision? How could you reduce or minimize that fear?

這樣的決定會(huì)讓你擔(dān)心嗎?你是如何排解恐懼的?

8. If you were sure to succeed, would you give it up?

如果你肯定自己能成功，那你會(huì)放棄嗎?

9. What are the best things that could happen from quitting and the worst things? Weigh themout and consider how each scenario makes you feel.

如果放棄，那最好的情況是怎樣?最早的情況又是如何?看清楚這些問題，考慮這些會(huì)給你怎樣的感覺。

10. If you had one year left to live, would this situation remain a part of it?

如果生命只剩下最后一年，這樣的情況還會(huì)繼續(xù)嗎?